Sex and You
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Love Lessons Series. Sex is a basic human desire that plays a huge role in our lives. We’re all motivated by different reasons for having sex, but having sex can dramatically change our lives for better or for worse. As much as our culture wants to downplay the seriousness of sex, the truth is, there are always strings attached, and they affect us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. In this video, we’ll discuss the best ways to minimize the bad effects sex can have and share the secret to a great sex life. Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • sex and you • sex • risks of casual sex • healthy sex • make a plan • ground rules • basic human desire • sex is physical • sex is emotional • sex is spiritual • STIs • risky sexual behavior • self-respect • love does not demand • sex bonds • relationship order • spiritual development. ©2018
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The Heart of the Matter
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Love Lessons Series. We all desire a deep connection with another person. We want a relationship in which we are known and loved. And . . . we want to have a great sex life, too. But can you have all of this through hookups, in one-night stands, or by living with someone before marriage? Our culture says, “Yes!” In this video, we will look at how sex bonds us physically, emotionally, and spiritually with every sexual partner we have, even if they’re not “THE ONE.” We’ll look at what casual sex and constant breakups can do to our future relationships, and what it takes to find the one partner who will stick around through good times and bad. Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • sex • connection • Adam and Eve • God designed sex • freedom to choose • sexual bonds • sex is physical • sex is emotional • sex is spiritual • lasting relationships • oxytocin • save sex for marriage • sexual risks • marriage isn’t perfect • make a plan • define the relationship • God’s love • one night stands • hookups ©2019
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STD/STI Avoidance
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Love Lessons Series. We live in a day when hooking up is as easy as a swipe to the right with no strings attached. There are friends with benefits, sex without a relationship or sex to keep one, sex as a way to get to know someone, sex to get what you want, and sex to forget someone you love. But is this really true? Can we really just have sex with no strings attached? In this video, we’ll explore the physical consequences of casual sex, how to truly protect yourself from STIs, and how to have great sex! Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • STDs • STIs • bacterial infections • viral infections • chlamydia • human papillomavirus • syphilis • trichomoniasis • genital herpes • HIV/AIDS • gonorrhea • bacterial vaginosis • hepatitis B • hepatitis C • preventing STDs/STIs • sexual bonds • condoms • symptoms • no symptoms • antibiotic resistance • STD testing • STI testing. ©2019
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Choosing Marriage
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Love Lessons Series. Many in our culture today view marriage as inconvenient and costly—outdated, unattainable, and maybe even the stuff of fantasy. Many have a “try before you buy” motto about relationships. But does this really get you to where you want to be—in a relationship with the guy who wants to spend the rest of his life with you? In this video, we will explore all that and discuss the best way to find “the one” who will commit to you, promise to love you, and be there for you no matter what. Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • choosing marriage • the exact opposite • marriage is different • making the choice • deep connections • lifelong bonds • one night stands • hookups • living together • cohabitation • toxic relationships • marriage is better • setting boundaries • defining relationship goals. ©2019
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RSIQ: Introduction
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Discover the importance of Raising Your Sex IQ for young adults aged 18-30 with Dr. Joe Malone, the sexual integrity scientist. This series addresses the unique challenges faced by this age group, offering insights that can be shared with faith communities for broader impact. Learn why understanding God’s design for sex and relationships is crucial for building a fulfilling life. Training is available for the advocate. Topics Include: sexual health • bonding • hookup • oxytocin • dopamine • sex • monogamy • marriage • relationship • connection • pornography
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RSIQ: Sex is a Binary - Male and Female
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Raise Your Sex IQ: Explore the scientific truth about sex and gender, debunking cultural myths and confusion. Learn why acknowledging the binary nature of sex—male and female—is essential for understanding your identity and building healthy relationships grounded in God’s design. Topics Include: sexual health • bonding • hookup • oxytocin • dopamine • sex • monogamy • marriage • relationship • connection • pornography
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RSIQ: What Women Need to Know About Men
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Raise Your Sex IQ: Uncover the science behind men’s bonding process and sex drive, driven by vasopressin and testosterone. Understand why romance and courtship are vital for men to form lasting bonds and how this knowledge empowers women to foster relationships that honor God’s plan. Training is available for the advocate. Topics Include: sexual health • bonding • hookup • oxytocin • dopamine • sex • monogamy • marriage • relationship • connection • pornography
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RSIQ: What Men Need to Know About Women
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Raise Your Sex IQ: Learn what attracts women to men—kindness, intelligence, and the ability to provide—along with their deep need for romance and emotional connection. Discover how men can build relationships that meet these needs, reflecting God’s love and respect for women. Training is available for the advocate. Topics Include: sexual health • bonding • hookup • oxytocin • dopamine • sex • monogamy • marriage • relationship • connection • pornography
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RSIQ: What We Need to Know About Ourselves
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Raise Your Sex IQ: Examine the emotional and spiritual consequences of sexual behavior outside of marriage. Learn why saving sex for marriage, as God intended, leads to healthier relationships, greater fulfillment, and a life free from regret. Training is available for the advocate. Topics Include: sexual health • bonding • hookup • oxytocin • dopamine • sex • monogamy • marriage • relationship • connection • pornography
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RSIQ: Battle FOR the Sexes, Not Against
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Raise Your Sex IQ: Gain a deeper understanding of how pornography and other sexual behaviors outside of marriage can negatively impact your brain, relationships, and spiritual life. Learn about the science behind addiction, the importance of emotional intimacy, and how to build a healthy, God-honoring approach to sex and relationships. Discover why avoiding these behaviors is crucial for fostering trust, intimacy, and a strong foundation for future marriage. Training is available for the advocate. Topics Include: sexual health • bonding • hookup • oxytocin • dopamine • sex • monogamy • marriage • relationship • connection • pornography
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RSIQ: Marriage Matters
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Raise Your Sex IQ: Discover the benefits of marriage for individuals, families, and society, far beyond a mere piece of paper. Learn why this lifelong commitment, rooted in God’s plan, provides stability, fulfillment, and a foundation for abundant life. Topics Include: sexual health • bonding • hookup • oxytocin • dopamine • sex • monogamy • marriage • relationship • connection • pornography
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RSIQ: The Blessing of Children
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Raise Your Sex IQ: Understand the physical, emotional, and spiritual blessings of having children within marriage. Challenge the cultural trend of avoiding parenthood and embrace the joy and purpose that family brings, as God commanded to “be fruitful and multiply.” Training is available for the advocate. Topics Include: sexual health • bonding • hookup • oxytocin • dopamine • sex • monogamy • marriage • relationship • connection • pornography
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